Think tank z on...'Expectation leads to sorrow!!!'

 


                        Don't give a damn!!! Its an endless process ie  EXPECTATIONS! This is the root cause of nearly all miseries in life ! people don't even realise sometimes when it comes or better call, enters into any relationship,,,,, and raise like hell, day by day to make that relationship literally HELL! Nobody actually wants to tame it but its human nature, yes! its very much part of human nature,,, so unavoidable. The only thing which a person can do is, don't think about it because its hard to control when realised its presence in the relationship. Better you focus on other things of your interest , or on person who cares for you, with whom, you have mutual and equal bonding in terms of love, affection, attachment,,,, and try to make  relationship better with them else if you are in the continuance with the expectation less relationships, you will become a prey of self pity,,, which is disastrous and criminal for your own soul! Don't run behind the people who don't care for you just because of your low stature in their own erroneous eyes! It can be fatal for your own soul. Invest, rather, your energy to construct your strength so that you can prove them wrong and make proud to your loving one. Sometimes its very necessary to close some windows of our heart permanently and open some new ventilators for the fresh air! Ventilate your heart with pure, fragrant air because its her right to remain healthy and pleasant always. After all she is your natural companion for the life! :)

Suffering must not be tolerated for the kids & Elders!

 

 

As Lord Buddha told, 'Life is suffering for all' and if we peep in to the reality, basically life is suffering for all though, again, its our attitude towards life. Our life passes through three major stages ie childhood, adulthood and old age. Adults are the working hands of any society/country. The constructive/destructive works of this slot , makes any country or ruin any country. However, the focus of my discussion is not this slot as there is no option for them, they should contribute their works for the society, its their duty! But children and elders are the group of  population who should not face suffering at any cost, in my opinion. We need to equip them atleast with basic amenities, if they cannot afford it themselves. Reason being, one(children) is in the process of learning, building one's life and another(elders) is in the process of leaving this world. So a soul should not leave this visible world without a sense of gratification! In our modern society, we don't practice the fourth stage of life ie 'Sanyaas Ashram' and age are just a number for this new world but again, every slot of population, are not comfortable with this new definition because their back ground, brought up and resource availability, are not same. Though we cannot fix a yardstick for any section,,,,,,,,but, in my opinion, these are the two slots of human population, which should be taken care of specially and deliberately.

think tank z on....'Avoiding unneccessary temptations'

 

Its weakness of our own soul which compel us to do anything against our own intellectuality ! We cant, really say about those acts that we were following our heart at that time. NO! In fact we make a bit mistake in judging the situation. Its actually temptation in many cases, and not the heart which force us to do many things against our own wish! Heart always goes with good, kind and right things but temptation is very selfish, in other words we can say that it always goes with the means of pleasure and comfort. Unfortunatly  most of the evils are very tempting...and austerity is very hard to earn/attain. So in the middle path what we can do is, avoiding the situations, avoiding that particular thinking for that moment, avoiding that kind of conditions as much as possible. Don't let anything come just like that in to your mind, don't acknowledge your mind and heart about that, don't even let you know about your temptations because if you will think about it, wheather its against or in favour of yourself,,,,,its always has a dragging effects! Temptation will drag you in its webby arms and then it will be difficult for you to come out of it. So avoidance, in my opinion, is the best remedy to avoid unwanted temptations. 

 

 

 

We live our attitude in our life!

   One day I was thinking that my mind is thinking since I have come in this world,,,,,,,,,and all the byproducts of my think tank (mind) goes in to biological dust bin of my body!?! So why cant I extract some of them and write here on my page of ' Bownian motion of my think tank'. It can also save the products of my mind in future,,,,,,so that I can cherish the moments while going through it!    
So here I am to write, to share, to become happy, to become sad,to share joy, to share sorrow........ :-( :'(  :-/  :-)  :-D