Hey Ladies! HAPPY WOMAN'S DAY!
Ohhh! I have just realised that I am too humanist to address just women even on our special day. But I have not allocated this day for women? why shall I? I shall never be so miser to allocate just one day for women out of 365 days? Every day is women's day and men's day and the day of every creatures on the earth! As a strong woman from inside, it hurts my sentiment to allocate any particular day for us. I have not heard about Men's day? then why do we need Women's day? Are we not equal? Do we not complement each other? May be, I am in denial,,,,but I am sorry that I can't see any hierarchy! I refuse to accept the patriarchal society if it is considering women's role any inferior! We had accepted this model because we wanted a harmonius society based on some rules,,, and for that we had sacrificed many of our birth right. We, willingly, don't claim anything from our birth place, we leave our birth place, we adjust ourselves in a completly new enviornment with strangers, we do our every bit to support your system. But none of them because we are inferior or timid! Its greatness of our heart which like to give up everything to assure a systematic, civilized society and in return we want a respect and greatfullness in your eyes for us. We don't like you to treat us like a weaker section as we are strong enough to do anything which can assure our strength in your eyes. I know, the purpose of this day was not to offend our kind. You wanted to recognize our achievements on this day,,,,,but this segregates us from you in a different way. For example- Guests in our houses are always welcomed and respectable but no body wants to be treated like a guest in his/her own house. So your this generosity is a bit uncomfortable for the women of substance. You and me are like two wheels of a bicycle and we,women, like it that way because it does not show any hierarchy. Division of labor should be the part of a harmonious society so we all are playing our parts within our own capabilities. Let's appreciate each other for that and accept the co-existance of each other because that will be the foundation of a healthy society. Cheers! :-)
