Its just our frame of mind which is called 'society' . It has been started from the age of savagery and barbarism. At that period there was no society so homo sapience were very alone and aloof. He use to wander to and fro in search of food and temporary night shelter. As the scientific facts were undiscovered at that time and human beings are as ignorant as any wild animal so the only need of the time were food and night shelter . Even clothes were not the necessity at that time because there was no civilisation existed. Very much unaware, uncertain, scared of the natural hazards, unpredictability of events and many more with no effective solution but taking it as a day to day uncertainties, were becoming the human nature. But again a Homo sapience had a well developed brain into his cranial cavity which was not allowing him to become relaxed, he was inquisitive, curious about the nature and its behaviour. He was watching that if he is alone he can not fight with a big animal so his life is in danger while he is searching for his food, if he don't have a fix night shelter, any wild animal can kill him while he is still sleeping, Any natural disaster can take away his life anytime and many practical problems like this so he decided to make a group, a group of Homo sapience. This group was a tribal group then village then town then city..........and then country! which is nothing but a group of people along with all his needs.
WELL, WELL, WELL,,,,that was an initial need because that was a need of an unaware, uneducated, uncivilised and fearful man! Who wanted to secure his life first then his family and then relatives then aquatints and increase the circumference according to social priority. But while doing so he became lost in this sense that this society which he had created, was for his life and not the vice versa !? But it was too late Mr Homo Sapience! Now society has become bigger than your existence! The monster which you had created for your protection, he is very strong now and he has many faces now in the course of evolution. Initially you were controlling him! Now, he is controlling your life! Now you are paying for becoming a civilised person of society which was created by you. Well! that was the need of the hour! Because you were relatively incapable but now you are an educated, enlightened, powerful man to control the nature even! So give a moderate power to your Monster, keep him inside his bottle so that he can not affect your life. Take your decisions from your own genius and not because society is saying you to do so. Keep the magic wand of your life in your hand and don't allow society to rule over it. " I can't do this because society would blame me, i can't speak truth because he/she will feel bad, this work is wrong but there is lots of society's pressure so i'l have to do it......." I mean 'WHAT THE HELL IS THIS SOCIETY!' . 'mere a creation of your own insecurities and which composed of the individuals like you!
I am not saying that dissolve the institution of society but take it constructively! Its very creation was constructive because the idea behind its creation was constructive but select the suitable and positive ones from its many faces. No institutions can be universally perfect under all its time and circumstances but we need to improve it from time to time. At the end you are individual even in the group to face/solve your own life problems. you will have to walk your path alone and nobody can walk it for you.So do whatever you genuinely want to do and not because of society's pressure and then you will have a satisfaction on your face at the end of your life..."Ki meri jo bhi life thi, wo mere khud ki wajah se thi" not because of any society's pressure,,,,, and believe me, this satishfaction is more than any happiness of the world ie SELF SATISFACTION.
