Suffering must not be tolerated for Elders & Kids!

He whispers into my ears,,,,,very oftenly ! Think tank z on...

                                                                                                                                                                                       He use to advice me, He very oftenly opens my eyes to see the reality, He gently slaps me for my wrong doings, pampers me for all my good things,,,,,,Yes! My Almighty do talk to me directly like a real friend of mine! He is continuously with me like a torch bearer but yet He never imposes anything upon me. He use to show me all the options to choose with, according to my choice and intelligence. No, He is neither biased for me nor for anyone else,,,because that intelligence is not unique to me. This is the great gift, given to every human being from Him and that's all,,, coz rest all tof the acts, done by us, are our own choice without His contribution. But, yes, He advises you, He guides you when you genuinely seek it from Him. For you, He can be a shape of any popular deity or an image of your  own imagination but in reality he is shapeless like water. For me, He is like a true, impartial friend from long. But once, like other 'Sanatanies' I was also an idol worshipper and even now, I believe that It is the best way of worshipping when you are not able to focus,,,because, then you will not have to search Him here and there. You just need to concentrate on the Idol of your God and you will be satisfied with your worship. There will be no guilt of deviation during that auspicious period of conversation with God coz in your opinion and visually also, it will be one to one conversation i.e. from worshipper to the God. Everyone has his/her own idea of the God which is just various ways to concentrate on that one Almighty.

           In my case, I have seen my God growing inside me.. I have seen him, growing along with me since my childhood so accordingly He was the interpretation of my little innocent brain at that time. I used to take thirty minutes to one hour while complaining or complementing Him,,,and that was my innocent idea of worship at that time....but as the time passes, I grew up, so my God also. Now, I hardly says or ask for anything from him. In my childhood, I use to work hard honestly for my first rank in the class. Unfortunately I used to end up with second or third position...and that used to be the time of my serious fight with God. In a close room of mine, there used to be a pond of tears between me and my God! :-D
I used to ask every possible questions why couldn't I be the first ranker in the class? & followed with all the yelling, taunting, alleging and whatever came to my little mind at that time.....! Things were so simple, relation was so simple between us so after solid fighting, we use to become friends as ever without any complain. Likewise He was my teenager friend, youth friend and now we have developed a kind of maturity in our friendship. Since I know Him from so long,  so instant complains are less as compare to earlier. I feel Him very close to my heart so conversations are a bit more deeper, we have developed mutual understanding in the course of time so relationship is closer, I know the real He so less formality . Basically we are inseparable from each others so He live inside me. My heart is His home sweet home now. :-)
   In the above situation, I have fairly good luxury to talk to him on every possible matters of life,,,very oftenly,,,very frequently,  and He use to guide me wherever it is necessary. He use to tell me that I am no more a kid so I can go ahead with my decisions.Just, what I need to do is ," stick with my good intentions, I need to preserve the purity of my thoughts." Rest, I am a human being and unlike Him, I can't visualise my future so minor mistakes and flaws, will be forgiven. Laughing at this matter, He whispered again into my ear ,  "errors and mistakes are not allowed/forgiven for Me as I am the God!"  :-D

Let's become the human of substance! Think tank z on....

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    Not for the others but for yourself,,,,inserting substance in to your personality gives you immense pleasure! A satisfaction of being, the purpose of living, the depth to our feelings, the widen horizon of  thinking,,,,,,,and many more thought processes like these,  find its true ground on the bottom of our heart. The curiosity, we tamed, since our childhood,  finally use to be quenched when we really could  assimilate our substance as an integral part of our persona. Automatically our aura got purified with the pure thoughts. We really began to find ourself  mean enough when we are thinking bad about someone else,  because our superficial thought and shallowness of personality have got filtered by our substance & the consequent gratification is truly awesome!
        Our initial false vision couldn't visualise the essence of life and was wandering here and there in search of physical, materialistic world to grab about every possible things. We want to find our status through the number of expensive goods accumulating around us,,,consequence is,  Increase in  the greed which always goes beyond one's capability to grab it . So we extend our self beyond our limit.
         In this process of grabbing more and more , we don't realise that life is also going with it's regular pace and time is irreversible i.e. what we are now, we shall not be the same tomorrow. But in the process of grabbing more and more, we didn't  peep  into our inside,,,our inside which is saying us, 'how much you really need to live your life happily?' i.e. Is it not enough to live your life satisfactorily? & If u are acquiring it for your  generations to come then  why the hell are you thinking that your next generation will be lame and lazy? & even while thinking so, why is it not coming into your mind that you are trying to make your next generation handicapped while grabbing more and more assets for them!? I mean,,,come on man!!!  Every next generation is smarter enough than the previous one! They can manage their life,,,,,Trust them!
         But, yes, you are definitely making your life measurable in  the process of grabbing,,, and believe me, Its never going to be enough! Because you never allow your inside to say this. So, spare few moments for your self. Do a conversation with you. Ask from yourself, 'Do you really want this? Are these things really making you happy? While doing so, are you close enough to your soul? Do you have a healthy, flourished soul? & Is it that what you want from your life?
         If 'Yes' is the answer truly! then go ahead, but if not then think for a while,,, go slowly,,, and do what really make you satisfied and happy from your inside. Leave the superficial persona of yours,,join your hands with something more meaningful, Find something more quenching and fulfilling to your soul,,,,,, Lets become a human of substance! :-)

Be the change, you want to see in others! Think tank z on....

             Coz then it will make more sense so start from yourself. On the other hand, then you will 

realize the practical applicability of your hypothesis which is, by now, only inside your cranium.

In this reference, there is a short story of Mahatma Gandhi in which a concerned father brought

his son to the Gandhi and ask him to advice his son not to take tea/coffee. Mr. Gandhi requested him

to come after one week. They returned and then again came after one week. Father again requested

Mr. Gandhi to guide his son. Mahatma Gandhi called his son and simply said, 'you should not take

tea/coffee. It can harm your health, Now, u go to your home and try not to take it again.'

After listening these words that boy asked Mr. Gandhi, 'U could have told me this one week earlier?

Why did you delay it for a week?'

Mahatma Gandhi told with a sweet smile, "At that time I didn't know how easy or difficult it would be to quit tea/coffee. But now that I have done it and not at all taking tea/coffee since a week so now I

can recommend you comfortably and confidently not to tame this habit "and believe me, its not very

difficult to quit, its very much doable, that I can say from my own experience.

Boy and his father smiled with hope and returned to their home with an inspiration to do so.

     

Happiness is,,, letting go of the negative stuff! Think tank z on...

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Why have i done so? why he/she always behave like this?Let me change someone from my positivity ! what should i do to correct someones attitude? How should i make everything perfect around me? how to erases the negative aura of someone?.........???? & so many questions like this when we really want to live in a positive surroundings! We want everything perfect and everyone, perfect within our own frame of reference........but wait for a moment and let me clear you one thing that  universe is not revolving around you but its you who is wasting your energy while thinking in such a useless direction! you are making your life miserable while roaming into directionless web of the globe!
Nothing would really change if you will waste your energy to change others attitude,,,,,at least not deliberate attempts! Am i sounding negative while saying so......right?                                                                  But, let me clear, while saying so, I am not telling you to give up everything! What i am saying is to stop being judgemental for others! Because very less things in this universe are right or wrong! Its just your upbringings and your surrounding which are making your own drawing of right and wrong in most of the cases. For example- The thing which is wrong for you, the same thing can absolutely okay with others,,,,and that's due to cultural differences. Now, you can't overnight become unbiased for the culture in which you have spent your entire life! There are definitely going to be some points which is just so positive/negative for you! & for those points, your tolerance is zero!
   Now, how can you help yourself in such a situations? yeah! There is solution for this problem too!
You just need to distance yourself from the people, you think, are negative for you! As a good human being, your first duty is to nurture your soul with good thoughts! Negative people, if they will be around you, will definitely create a certain amount of anxiety in side you! They may not be wrong from their own point of view, but they are not good for your personality or in other words, they don't suits your personality. So better to make a parallel distance from such people.
    Rather, you concentrate on yourself to make your personality better, tolerant, positive, constructive and progressive. Try to broaden the horizon of your thoughts. Try to understand others from their point of view without getting much affected or without being judgemental. Try to make yourself genuinely happy,,,,now, why i am using the word GENUINELY here?!?! Because, in most of the cases, genuine happiness is not related to the pain of others! Its always something which is kind and gentle for everyone!
Well, that's altogether is a different topic and i don't want to deviate my context here, so coming back to the constructive part of individuals personality! Working on yourself in a positive, progressive and constructive direction will always be good and satisfying for your own soul and sometimes inspiring for others also. Sometimes, we boast about changing the society's ill norms! but we must realise that starting point is you and your conduct. After all society is that chain for which you are a link,,,,,,each link is important to form a strong chain of society! Now, i think, you better understand the power of an individual! & In a broader picture, if you are not able to see the role of an individual even now,  then also you should be positive for yourself ,,,,,,because, if not the whole society, then also building your own personality is your responsibility & that you can't deny! So, to nurture your soul, to built yourself in your own eyes, to fulfill the purpose of being here,,,,,,,,,,,,Be good to yourself! Surround yourself with positive people! let go the negative stuff! Believe me, you will be filled with the spark of positivity which will be indeed a source of great joy and truely its coming from your own aura,,,,,,,,,,the light,,,which is shining your world! :-)

Every single creature is different and unique! Think tank is on....

                                                                                                                                                                                   Lets start with a scratch ie a single celled animal to the multi cellular and so called most advance among all creatures ' Human beings'. They all are different in terms of their unique capabilities when it comes to the division of works in nature. No one can takes others position cause it can't compensate others ability. As it was rightly quoted once by 'Vedavyas' to Duryadhana , "The Sun has its own position and the small lamp has its own position! None of them can replace each other". Human can't have chlorophyll so he can't produce oxygen and food directly though he have learned how to govern the nature till some extent. But that governing is not harmless though instantly not visible. You are going to face its consequences. Moral is there is no hierarchy exist in the nature! Every single creature has been created for a certain reason and who will disturb this equation of the nature by creating a hierarchy, he will definitely disturb the balance of nature and that would be irreparable loss for the earth and the living beings of the earth!Development is unavoidable but respect the nature. Compensate if you have damaged something for your own benefit. Take a calculative and educated risks , that too for the common welfare and definitely not for the individual gain. Love the things as they are in their natural harbor , love the God's creatures!

Society is just an illusion! Think tank is on...

   

Its just our frame of mind which is called 'society' . It has been started from the age of savagery and barbarism. At that period there was no society so homo sapience were very alone and aloof. He use to wander to and fro in search of food and temporary night shelter. As the scientific facts were undiscovered at that time and human beings are as ignorant as any wild animal so the only need of the time were food and night shelter . Even clothes were  not the necessity at that time because there was no civilisation existed. Very much unaware, uncertain, scared of the natural hazards, unpredictability of events and many more with no effective solution but taking it as a day to day uncertainties,  were becoming the human nature. But again a Homo sapience had a well developed brain into his cranial cavity which was not allowing him to become relaxed, he was inquisitive, curious about the nature and its behaviour. He was watching that if he is alone he can not fight with a big animal so his life is in danger while he is searching for his food, if he don't have a fix night shelter, any wild animal can kill him while he is still sleeping, Any natural disaster can take away his life anytime and many  practical problems like this so he decided to make a group, a group of Homo sapience. This group was a tribal group then village then town then city..........and then country! which is nothing but a group of people along with all his needs.

WELL, WELL, WELL,,,,that was an initial need because that was a need of an unaware, uneducated, uncivilised and fearful man! Who wanted to secure his life first then his family and then relatives then aquatints and increase the circumference according to social priority. But while doing so he became lost in this sense that this society which he had created, was for his life and not the vice versa !? But it was too late Mr Homo Sapience! Now society has become bigger than your existence! The monster which you had created for your protection, he is very strong now and he has many faces now in the course of evolution. Initially you were controlling him! Now, he is controlling your life! Now you are paying for becoming a civilised person of society which was created by you. Well! that was the need of the hour! Because you were relatively incapable but now you are an educated, enlightened, powerful man to control the nature even! So give a moderate power to your Monster, keep him inside his bottle so that he can not affect your life. Take your decisions from your own genius and not because society is saying you to do so. Keep the magic wand of your life in your hand and don't allow society to rule over it. " I can't do this because society would blame me, i can't speak truth because he/she will feel bad, this work is wrong but there is lots of society's pressure so i'l have to do it......." I mean 'WHAT THE HELL IS THIS SOCIETY!' . 'mere a creation of your own insecurities and which composed of the individuals like you!

I am not saying that dissolve the institution of society but take it constructively! Its very creation was constructive because the idea behind its creation was constructive but select the suitable and positive ones from its many faces. No institutions can be universally perfect under all its time  and circumstances but we need to improve it from time to time. At the end you are individual even in the group to face/solve your own life problems. you will have to walk your path alone and nobody can walk it for you.So do whatever you genuinely want to do and not because of society's pressure and then you will have a satisfaction on your face at the end of your life..."Ki meri jo bhi life thi, wo mere khud ki wajah se thi" not because of any society's pressure,,,,, and believe me, this satishfaction is more than any happiness of the world ie SELF SATISFACTION.

If we don't compare our lives with others,,,,Its always better & happier! Think tank is on....

                               Most of the time we don't realise the power of not comparing us with others...Its simple, on the  earth, there will be always someone who will be better than you in your own eyes! No matter how high we are in our power and position, there will be someone who will be better ( under your own criteria). But its human nature that he want to see himself on the top of the world. That's different thing that his acts/works are not always as per the level of his goal. Now,  here   arise the conflict between his body and mind. Mind wants to achieve everything he wants but body is too lazy to accompany his goal....and the process is on and on and on.......result is permanent restlessness, lack of satisfaction and happiness has been gone permanently from your life. Who is responsible for this??? Its you man! you and your attitude towards life. Jealousy is integral part of human nature but we can correct it or at least lessen its intensity by correcting our attitude! I know its easy to say but difficult to follow....but here again, you are using your efforts to make your life better! so do a bit more effort to fight against your natural instinct !!!                                                                                                  Now, How should you do it if you want to do it? this is the question? Yeah, there is solution also and believe me its not so difficult or innovative. I am not going to say something which is out of the world. Each of us know it. We just need to give a bit more emphasis on our that corner of think tank.                                                                               As we know that no one can be best/Perfect in this world as these are mere words to encourage your achievements! Perfection and absolutism don't exist for a living being! But instead of comparing our life with others, if we would try to make it better and progressive then this will work much better than  you keep on comparing yourself with others! Believe me! If you are determined that you will not make the same mistake time and again, you will try to think and take the  life events positively, you will not allow your body to become over lazy and you will try to make a balance equation among your body, mind and heart,,,,,,,,,YOU WILL DEFINITELY WIN THE HAPPINESS OF YOUR LIFE! No one can stop you anywhere. Your lifespan and energy are too less to tame the jealousy for others. Unnecessarily it takes lots of your energy and quality of thoughts. So not comparing our lives with others and continuously moving in the progressive direction, that's all you need to make your life better and happier!My wishes for your betterment..... :-)