Because, it really works wonder i.e. self motivation! You knows yourself better than anyone else, you knows your weakness and strength. You know what you actually want from your life so, yes, its you and only you who can motivate yourself for the long run (Y)
Many times, it happens that we hear about someone or came across some incidents which inspires us to achieve something significant in our life,,,,,but in the course of time, we realise that they fades quickly, because those were temporary, event generated motivations which were not meant for us. For example- infatuations sound like love of life at the beginning but after certain time, we realise that that was not even love but an attraction. Yeah, its difficult to delineate the difference between love and infatuations at that time because symptoms are almost same in both the cases so it requires time and a bit of analysis to make a decision. Likewise, It takes some time to differentiate between temporary motivation and the permanent one.
Permanent one will stay with you, it will nag you time and again, no matters how much comfortable are you with your current situation. There will be a guilt feeling inside you that you are not doing what are you meant to be. The strong feelings of finding the meaning of your life in your own eyes.
In this situation, give yourself a sufficient amount of time for analysis and you can consider this phase as a retreating phase for your soul searching. The best aspect of not doing something for a while is, you analyse honestly about yourself and not because you have to analyse. Without any compulsion, you take a better decision, informed decision about yourself. Put yourself under the critical microscope of your mind, take a visual litmus tests of your acts, summarise your life history, calculate the prose and cones........and the amalgam of the above will produce a real result because, its a real and diligent work of your think tank for you.
So ? now what? what are you going to do about it? Should you again and again analyse the outcome?
Answer is, yes! Analyse yourself as long as it takes, think about the every aspects, reshuffle the plan, if required......but, but , but! when decided never look back for evaluations! Stick with the plan and act accordingly to achieve your goal of life!
If, at every step you will look back, you are never going to reach your destination and believe me, you really don't want this but its the laziness of your mind which force you to look back again and again. We want to achieve something but we want our comfort also and the struggle will be unyielding.
So, once realises the goal of your life, never turn back! Try hard, work diligently and look forward to achieve your goal which will automatically yeild the satisfaction and meaning of your life and why not! After all it was your self motivation which bring you here for the purpose. Cheers ! :-)
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